Corner Cowgirl Sex Position

        The Corner Cowgirl sex position is obviously a variation of the regular Cowgirl sex position, where you are on top of your man at the corner of the bed, while he’s lying on his back. This is a great position to try if you are getting bored of regular Cowgirl.

To perform it, your man needs to lie on his back on the bed. His crotch should be positioned by the corner of the bed, so that one of his legs dangles over 1 side of the bed, while the other dangles over the end of the bed. Ideally your man should plant his feet on the floor to give himself some stability. You then need to straddle him as you normally would when performing the cowgirl position so that you are on your knees, “bouncing” up and down on him.

 

What The Girl Does In The Corner Cowgirl Position

       So when you are on top of your man, on your knees, part of your lower legs will be hanging over the edge of the bed.
Your first objective is a safety one: you need to be careful not to accidentally slip backwards and fall off him.

To make sure you don’t, try leaning forward a little while on top of your man. Instead of just “bouncing” up and down on your man, you may find it a little more pleasurable to sit right down on him and move your hips forwards and backwards so that you are grinding on him with very little thrusting.

What The Guy Does In The Corner Cowgirl Position

      When your man is lying on his back, he has the option of relaxing and letting you do most of the work, but really he should be doing his fair share if he is serious about great sex.

If the bed is at the right height and his feet are planted on the floor, it means that he can thrust up into you quite vigorously, while you keep yourself slightly elevated on your knees. He can also put his hands on your hips and push you forwards and backwards to grind on him.
 

Things To Consider When Performing The Corner Cowgirl Position

        As the Corner Cowgirl position is so similar to the regular Cowgirl position, it’s fairly popular and I have managed to get some great feedback on it from students:

    The first thing is to make sure that you don’t slip backwards and accidentally fall off. A great wat to prevent yourself from falling off is just to get your man to move further back towards the middle of the bed so that only his lower legs are hanging over the edge.
    As with most sex positions, make sure to do a little experimentation by leaning forwards and backwards to find an angle that you really enjoy.
    You won’t be able to perform it if your bed has both a headboard and footboard.

Sean’s Thoughts On The Corner Cowgirl Sex Position

I personally really enjoy the Corner Cowgirl sex position as it’s simple to transition to from Cowgirl or Asian Cowgirl. When I have my feet firmly on the ground it allows me to thrust back into my partner very easily for more passionate sex.


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Bucking Bronco Sex Position

             The Bucking Bronco sex position is great if you like being on top and having most of the control during sex. The Bucking Bronco is quite similar to the Octopus position but is much easier and less tiring to perform.

To set yourself up in the Bucking Bronco position, your man needs to lie down on his back. You then need to get on top of him, facing him. When he is inside you, lean backwards and put your arms behind you to keep yourself balanced. Then put your feet so that they are either side of your man’s head. The wider you spread your feet, the easier it will be to balance yourself.

             Now you will be able to bounce up and down on your man, just like a…. Bucking Bronco. You’ll find that it’s quite easy to switch to the Bucking Bronco from the Reverse Cowgirl position.

What The Girl Does In The Bucking Bronco Position

         When you are doing the Bucking Bronco with your man, you will be doing the majority of the work, lifting yourself up and down on your man. This will quickly get tiring if your man is not helping you out. To take a break, try sitting right down on your man and rocking yourself backwards and forwards.

The Bucking Bronco is also a great position for anal sex. If you are having anal sex while doing it, then you can use one hand to rub your clitoris and vagina or even finger yourself, while using your other hand to balance yourself
 
What The Guy Does In The Bucking Bronco Position
 
           If your man is particularly lazy, then he doesn’t have to do anything. But if he is interested in both of you having a good time, then he needs to be active too. Keeping his legs straight and together won’t allow him to thrust into you with much force. Instead, he should lift his knees and bend them a little bit, then plant them on the bed. This will allow him to get leverage and thrust harder.
He can also just gyrate his hips while remaining deep inside you.

Things To Consider When Performing The Bucking Bronco Position

           I have thankfully gotten some response from students who have performed the Bucking Bronco with their man:

    If you find that your shoulders/arms quickly get tired, then try leaning back further and rest on your elbows instead. Just be careful as you will be putting extra strain on your man’s penis.
    Alternatively, try leaning further forward.
    A third alternative is for your man to raise his knees up far enough so that you can comfortably lie back on them so you now longer have to use your arms to support yourself.
    There is a good bit of room for you to move around in the Bucking Bronco position, so make sure to experiment a bit until you find an angle that you really enjoy.

Sean’s Thoughts On The Bucking Bronco Sex Position
 
             I quite enjoy the Bucking Bronco position. I find that sometimes it’s more fun and a little less arduous or tiring for you to just grind in this position instead of bouncing up and down.

 
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Asian Cowgirl Sex Position

       The asian cowgirl sex position is very similar to regular the regular cowgirl position. You are on top, while your man is lying down on his back. However there are still some major differences that you need to consider when performing it.

In the regular cowgirl position, you will have your knees either side of your man, resting on the bed. When you are doing the asian cowgirl with your man, you will be squatting, which means that most of your weight will be supported by your feet while you are squatting. You can use your hands to take some of your weight by putting them on either your man’s chest or on either side of him on the bed. If you are not very strong or flexible, you will find the asian cowgirl position to be quickly tiring.

What The Girl Does In The Asian Cowgirl Position

     When you are in the asian cowgirl position, you will be squatting over your man. I find that it’s best to start from the regular cowgirl position and then transition into asian cowgirl. To move into asian cowgirl from regular cowgirl, first lean forwards and put your hands on the bed to steady yourself. Next rock back onto your toes and raise your body just off your man to get into the squatting position.

Now put your hands on your mans chest and together using both your arms and legs, slowly rise up and down. If you find that your arms are getting tired from doing most of the work, then switch to using your legs and vice-versa. Obviously you can change the angle of entry by either leaning forwards or backwards. However if you lean backwards too much, your may find that it’s harder to balance and your legs get tired even faster.

What The Guy Does In The Asian Cowgirl Position

       Your guy will have much less work to do when you are in the asian cowgirl position. If he wants, he can just lie there and literally do nothing at all. But that’s not what great sex is all about.

What’s best is if he helps you to bounce up and down. In other words he can put his hands under your legs/bum and help to lift you up and down, so that you are not doing all of the work. Alternatively, he can put a hand on either side of your waist to balance you.

Things To Consider When Performing The Asian Cowgirl Sex Position

          Having gotten some feedback from students who have tried or regularly use the asian cowgirl position with their man, here is what I have learned:

    It gets tiring quickly. I know I have already said this. But from talking to students, most have lasted less than 2 minutes in the asian cowgirl love making position before their legs become too weak to keep supporting them.
    The best way to last longer is to use the Top Tip above: Hold still, while your man does all the thrusting.
    You need a good degree of flexibility and strength to do the asian cowgirl.
    You can use a firm cushion or 2 under your bum so that your legs are no longer taking all the weight. Make sure to get your man to keep his legs together if you do this, otherwise the cushions will not be of much use.

Sean’s Thoughts On The Asian Cowgirl Position

     Personally, I am not the biggest fan out there of the asian cowgirl position. Although, one thing I have learned from it is that if your man is able to thrust very rapidly, girls can get a lot of pleasure from it when they stay steady in one position.


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Amazon Sex Position

           The Amazon sex position is a woman on top position that a lot of people have never actually heard of. But it’s really fun and definitely worth trying, especially if you like to take on a slightly dominant role in the bedroom.

       To do the Amazon, your man needs to lie down on his back and bring his legs upwards and bend his knees. You then need to squat down on your man, while he pulls his legs close to his chest so that they are out of your way. You then just need to squat up and down to allow him to penetrate you. You will find that your man will naturally push you back upwards with his thighs.

       When you are performing the Amazon with your man, your first priority is getting into position without hurting your man and making sure that you are comfortable. You may find that leaning on your man’s thighs helps to take the pressure off your legs a little bit.

I recommend that you first get into postion above your man, before taking his penis into your vagina. When are in position, slowly pull it backwards and then slip it inside. With the first few strokes, make sure that you are very gentle and careful so as not to hurt your man. Make sure to ask him how it feels and go from there.
What The Guy Does In The Amazon Position

When your man is in the Amazon position, he will not be doing a whole lot. He needs to have a small amount of flexibility so that he can actually hold his legs into his chest and out of your way. He can use his thighs to very gently help to nudge you up and down on his penis.

Variations Of The Amazon

        There are a number of variations of the Amazon that you can perform if you find that the the regular Amazon is too difficult or awkward to perform.

Kneeling Amazon – Instead of squatting over your man, try kneeling to take the pressure off your legs. The only problem with kneeling is that you may find yourself constantly slipping down the back of your man’s thighs which will further bend his penis backwards.

Reverse Amazon – Performing the Amazon in reverse (by having your back to your man), you may find it to be much, much easier. You will be sort of sitting on your man’s thighs while bouncing up and down on him.
Things To Consider When Performing The Amazon Position

Having gotten some feedback from students who have tried the Amazon with their man, there are a few things that you should keep in mind to make sure you always get a lot of pleasure out of this position:

    The more you lean over your man (in the regular Amazon position), the less pressure you will be putting on his suspensory ligaments in his penis (the less strained his penis will be).
    The Reverse Amazon is much easier to perform with your man, without feeling like his thighs are constantly pushing you off.

Sean’s Thoughts On The Amazon Sex Position
      The Amazon position is a slightly more exotic position to perform with your partner. If you like taking on a dominant role, where you have most of the control, then you have got to try it. I personally prefer the reverse Amazon because there is far less strain on my penis.



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How To Kiss – 22 Hot Kissing Techniques

In this article & video I am going to show you 22 different kissing tips & techniques to use on your partner. This is the ultimate guide on how to kiss someone with passion and intensity to show them how much you really like and care them. If you do it right, then you can be assured that they will pay you back with interest!

If you are worried about how to prepare yourself before kissing your man, then read this article first… Now lets learn each of these kissing tips!

1. Let Him Kiss You

Worried about what to do when kissing your man? Not sure what you should be doing with your lips, tongue, mouth and hands? Don’t worry! Your man will most likely be just as nervous. The perfect antidote to this nervousness is to just let your man do all the work. That’s right, just sit back, relax and let your man kiss you while you enjoy it.

If you feel like he has been doing all the work for a little too long, all you need to do is just imitate him and kiss him back just as he was kissing you. So if he was massaging your lips with his, then do it back to him. If he was licking, sucking and kissing your neck, then do it to him. Easy!


2. Kiss Against A Wall

Embracing each other while kissing is of course very hot…however there is one move that is a little more passionate than simply embracing each other. The next time you are kissing your man where there is a wall (e.g. your room), try pushing your man back up against it and leaning him to him to keep him pressed against it.

This is a pretty dominant move that will turn him on a whole lot more…especially if it’s not something you would normally do. So if you are looking to be a bit more a


3. Kiss Him While He’s Lying Down

You know that wonderful feeling you get when your man initiates a kiss? It’s hot to have him take control. While this is an almost universal feeling, many forget that guys enjoy it just as much when you initiate and kiss him. Annoyingly though, it can be difficult being the one who initiates the kiss with a guy if he is taller than you.

Thankfully there is a really simple way to make kissing him much easier and more natural. The next time you are both lying down together, position yourself so that you are lying on your man’s chest. From here it is really simple and natural to move to being on top and facing him. Then all you need to do is just lean in to kiss him.


4. Kiss His Neck

I sure hope you already do this. You’re man’s neck is a super sensitive region, and there is a lot of it. So the next time you are both kissing each other, just move your lips towards his neck. Learning how to kiss his neck is super easy…

All you really need to do is gently purse your lips together and suck on a small area of his neck for a second or 2. Then move up or down slightly and kiss another area closeby. You can also mix in a little licking too when you are not sucking on his neck.

If you want to be a little kinkier when kissing his neck, then you can use a little bit more pressure when sucking his neck to give him a hickey. Another great technique is to VERY gently bite his neck and hold the skin between your teeth. You should feel your man breathing a little faster than normal when you do this!


5. The Forehead Kiss

There is something that’s very comforting when you kiss your man on his forehead (or he does the same to you). So it’s probably not the best kissing technique to bust out when you want to be super-passionate. But if your man is tired or upset, then it could be the perfect thing to do.

Of course it often won’t be that practical if you are both standing up, but it can be incredibly nice if he is sitting or lying down.


6. Play With His Ear

Your man’s ear (especially his ear lobe) is incredibly sensitive. Often it’s even more sensitive than his lips. So a great way to heighten the sensation of kissing him is to softly play with his ear lobe with your fingers while you are kissing him.

Rather than just randomly grabbing his ear while kissing him, you’ll find it much smoother to first hold his neck between your hands and then slide your fingers up to his ear and play with his ear lobe.
It will feel far more natural to play with just one of his ear lobes rather than both at the same time.

7. Kiss His Ear &….

Taking kissing tip #6 to the next level is a smart idea…try kissing his ear. I’m not talking about just kissing his ear lobe. I’m talking about kissing his entire ear. Kissing and massaging the outside part of his ear between your lips is pretty simple, but there is something you can do that is much hotter and sexier…

Lick his ear, especially the inner part of it. Just make sure your tongue is nice and moist. One of the hottest parts of kissing and licking his ear, especially the inside part is that your man will be able to hear everything…your breathing, your kissing


8. Suck His Ear Lobe

I don’t want to make your man’s ear the main part of this article on how to kiss him, so this is the last time I’ll talk about it. Like I said earlier, your man’s ear lobe is super sensitive, so he will definitely appreciate it if you pay a lot of attention to it.

A really gentle way to stimulate it is to softly suck on it with your lips. Then as you are finishing, lightly squeeze it between your lips and slowly pull away so that it gets pulled through your lips. Another way is to use your teeth and do the exact same thing. Just remember to only use a super light amount of pressure when doing this!

Don’t be surprised if you feel your man shaking with pleasure when you do this!


9. Hello Kiss

Saying hello with a kiss is probably the most obvious thing you can do to your man. There are boat load of different techniques that you can use when giving your man a hello kiss, but the one the I always recommend is a quick peck on the lips while embracing him.

You can see what I am talking about in this part of the kissing tutorial video.

Another way to say hello is to just softly squeeze his lower lip between your lips and slowly pull away from him as you are doing it. Yum!


10. Remember To French Kiss

No article on kissing would be complete without covering french kissing! French kissing is the perfect way to really show him how passionate you are. Rather than just sticking your tongue down his throat and twirling it around like a washing machine, it’s actually much more seductive to take things slower and to almost tease him while French kissing him.

Start by sticking your tongue out just a little bit and then use it to softly massage and caress his lips. Your man should take the hint and will start doing the same. Once he opens his mouth a bit and sticks his tongue out then you can start massage it with yours.

Try to alternate between a few seconds of massaging his tongue with yours and massaging his lips with your tongue, then let him do the same to you with his tongue while making sure to mix in some regular kissing too. That’s really all there is to it!


11. Kiss When It’s Windy And Cold

Kissing your man in the same locations gets boring very quickly, especially if it’s always in private or always somewhere predictable. That’s why you should try kissing your man when it’s windy and cold. It’s so unexpected, but at the same time


12. Kiss After Deep Eye Contact

Most of these kissing tips describe exactly what you need to do to your man ‘physically’. When I say ‘physically’, I mean that I’m giving you instructions on what to do with your lips, tongue, teeth and hands. This is all important, but how you make him feel is just as important.

A great way to show him how much you love him and care about him is to first make deep eye contact for a few seconds before you kiss him.

Now this isn’t something you can just force whenever you feel like it. You really need to wait until the time is right. When it is, you’ll know.

13. Kiss Him On The Cheek

Ok, kissing your man on the cheek isn’t the hottest kissing tactic ever, but it’s a nice extra technique to add to your repertoire. Especially if you need a smooth way to transition from kissing his lips to kissing his neck or ears.

Kissing your man on the cheek is super simple. So simple in fact that you probably don’t need to watch a demonstration.


14. Give Him Little Pecks

Similar to kissing your man on the cheek is giving him little ‘pecks’, where you only kiss him for a millisecond. It’s actually perfect to use as a way to smoothly transition to giving him a blow job. All you need to do is start giving him little pecks on his neck and then kiss him all the way down his chest to his stomach and finally until you are by his penis and ready to give him a blow job.



15. Kiss When You’re Happy

Sharing a kiss with your man when you’re happy isn’t so much of a powerful kissing tip that will make him fall in love with you. It’s actually just something nice to do with your man to make a fun moment more intimate.

Maybe you’re joking around with him or you’re both laughing at something that happened recently. If the time feels right, then just lean in and give him a quick kiss. Don’t try to force it or do it too often. The key is to keep it natural. If you feel like it’s going to be awkward, then just wait until later.



16. Kiss Him When He’s Behind You

There is something very sexy and even a little submissive when your man is embracing your from behind and you lean back to kiss him. He can even help to direct you by putting his hand on your neck. Again, this is one of those techniques that works best when it’s not forced, but instead you only do it when it feels right.


17. Lightly Scratch His Scalp While Kissing Him

Often I get asked, “What should I do with my hands while kissing my man?” The easiest answer is to just embrace your man by wrapping your hands around him. But this can get a bit boring after a while. A much more passionate way to use your hands is to massage and gently scratch his scalp, especially at the back of his head.

It’s super sensitive and feels wonderful to have rubbed, caressed, massaged and scratched. So the next time your are kissing him try it, your man will love it.


18. Let Him Do The Same (Let Him Scratch Your Scalp)

Having your scalp scratched and massaged feels so good for your man, that you should make sure he does it to your too! If he doesn’t do it on his own accord, you could ask him to do…but that’s pretty awkward. A much smoother way is to do it to him for a little bit. Then after a while, just grab his hand and put it on your scalp. The back of your scalp is by far the most sensitive. Most guys will instinctively know what to do from here.


19. Kiss With Passion

I hope that you’re enjoying all of these kissing tips. One mistake people often make after reading a list of sexy, hot things to do is that they just use them like rules. They think they should do each kissing tip once and do all the tips in order or something like that.

This is not hot or sexy at all. It will make your man think he is kissing an emotionless robot! A much better way to kiss him is to just try 1 or 2 of these tips and then afterwards just do what feels right and good. This will make for much more passionate kissing where you are simply enjoying what you are doing and getting lost in the moment instead of worrying about what to do next.

So use each of these kissing techniques as a rough guide, not as hard rules that you must follow. If you do, then you’ll notice that it feels very natural and it’s much easier to kiss your man with passion.


20. Kiss With Tenderness

When your man is tired, feeling down or just isn’t in a great mood, then he’s probably not going to respond so well to you kissing him super passionately. In fact if you do this when he’s not in the mood, it could really turn him off. A much better way to kiss him is in a way that shows him that you care about him. Kissing him tenderly will achieve exactly that.

Kissing him tenderly is super easy, just softly massage his lips between yours, kiss him on the cheek and to touch him and even hug him.


21. Caress Him While Kissing

Massaging your man’s scalp or hugging him isn’t the only thing you can do with your hands while kissing him. Don’t forget to run your hands all over his body…his chest, back, arms, shoulders and don’t forget about his butt! This is nice when you are both somewhere private.

But if you are both naked, lying in bed, it’s a lot more powerful and fun!


22. Kiss In A Crowded Place

Kissing your man in a crowded place isn’t something that everyone is comfortable with, but I really hope you try it at least once. And I’m not talking about a bar or club. I’m talking about somewhere in the open, like on a street or in a mall or shopping center.

Some people don’t realise that they actually like the idea of other people seeing them kiss their man until they actually try it. Who knows, maybe you will too!

What Next?

I hope that you enjoyed this article on how to kiss your man with passion and intensity. However, learning how to kiss your man is just the start. You should also start thinking about incorporating other great sex techniques in your arsenal for when things get even more intimate.

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How To Prepare For Great Anal Sex

The main reason why women dislike or even hate anal sex is because they didn’t properly prepare for it. If your man suggests it one night and neither of you fully understand how to make it easy, pleasurable and fun then both of you are going to be in for one lousy time!

But once you understand how to properly prepare for anal sex, you’re going to find it a very pleasurable experience. So follow this advice and get ready to have some fun…

• Why Anal Sex & Regular Vaginal Sex Are So Different

The simple and very obvious reason is because your man is going to be stimulating your vagina during regular sex and your anus & rectum during anal sex. But how come some women adore anal sex and some women absolutely hate it? Why the big difference?

It all comes down to one simple muscle, your anal sphincter.

I know it sounds funny, but I’m totally serious!

This muscle is completely different to any muscle you will find in your vagina. The interesting thing about it is that it’s in a constant state of contraction. So it’s tense & tight all the time. Unlike many other muscles in your body, getting your anal sphincter muscle to relax can take a while, usually a few minutes.

Many guys don’t understand this. They think a little bit of lube will ‘do the trick’ and make everything easy and enjoyable for you. This isn’t the case (and you should let you man know this!). As well as using lubricant, you also need to give your sphincter time to fully relax. If you want to learn more about this interesting muscle, then check out the Wikipedia article on it here.

• The Relaxation Period

So now that you know about your sphincter, it’s time to learn how to get it to fully relax, so that your man can enter you easily and pleasurably. This is vital when learning how to prepare for anal sex properly. In order to do this, you need to allow it to slowly loosen up. You can’t rush things as it simply can’t rapidly relax. Additionally, it won’t loosen up unless you stick something up there.

Another thing to bear in mind is that if you are tense or very nervous, it’s going to take longer for it to relax. This is why I always advise that you first learn how to relax your sphincter alone before trying it with your man when preparing for anal sex. That way there is much less pressure the first few times you try it.

Now that you know about this interesting muscle, you’re probably wondering what techniques to use to get it to relax and loosen up, try these…

• Start Very Small

The best way to start preparing for anal sex is by loosening up your sphincter with something very small. I advise using one single finger. First grab a small amount of lube and cover your finger with it. Then rub some on your anus. Then get on your knees and lean forward so that your chest is lying on your bed. This is the best position to be in to help your sphincter to relax. You’re going to be in a similar position to the turtle position.

Quick note: It’s much easier to put your hand behind your back when penetrating your anus, inside of in front of yourself.

Then cautiously start pushing your finger into your anus. Like I explain on the main page about having anal sex, you’ll immediately notice how tight it is. After you get a little bit inside, stop and hold your finger there for a full minute. You’ll notice that towards the end of that minute, it won’t feel as tight anymore. Then gently pull your finger out, rest for a minute or 2 and then push it in again, this time try to go a bit deeper.

As you do, you may feel like you hit another layer of resistance. This is the other side of the sphincter muscle. It’s about 0.5-1 inch deep. As you push through it, go very gently and slowly as this is the area that has the most potential for pain. Then once your push through this last part of the sphincter, hold your finger there for another full minute before slowly pulling it out.

Then do it again. And again. Up to 10 times total. And make sure to pay attention to how your sphincter starts to loosen up. It’s simple, but it’s just the start. Here’s 3 pointers to keep in mind when learning how to prepare for anal sex:

•     Make sure to trim your fingernails first!

•     If you are wondering how much lube to use during this entire exercise, follow this simple rule: “It’s better to have too much lube, rather than too little”

•     Feel free to masturbate while doing it (P.S. You’ll find some excellent masturbation techniques here, here & here)

Now let’s keeping moving forward with your anal sex preparation…

Once you find that you can easily slip one finger up there, then it’s time to try 2 fingers using the same guidelines that I described above. Remember to go slowly and make sure that you stop if you feel like it’s too uncomfortable.

At this stage you may feel ready, but I always advise that too much preparation is a good thing. So if you feel that you’re like you’re almost ready, but need more preparation, then you should read this additional guide and these great positions for anal sex . But if you want more advice on preparing yourself for anal sex, keep reading…

• The Magic Of Butt Plugs

You’ll quickly find that fingering your anus is quite awkward if you want to do it for a sustained period of time. An easier way to get your anus loosened up is to use a butt plug. They come in all shapes and sizes, which means that they have very thin ones for beginners as well as much larger ones if you enjoy the sensation of being really stretched. So you can start with a small one and then keep ‘upgrading’ to bigger ones as you find it more comfortable. You can even purchase trainer kits which come with a selection of butt plugs of different sizes.

Once you put the butt plug inside you, it’s shaped so it will just sit there, meaning that you don’t have to do anything to keep it in place. So you can go about your daily life as if it’s not there all…if you are feeling particularly kinky!

• Dildos

If you want to go one step further in your anal sex preparation, then you should consider using a dildo that’s similar in size to your man’s penis. Just like with the butt plugs, you’ll notice how you’re very tight when you first penetrate yourself with it, but that you start to loosen up after a while.

Start with very slow, shallow strokes and as you get more and more comfortable, start to penetrate yourself a little deeper and faster. Again, pay close attention so that you don’t accidentally hurt yourself.

Now you know exactly what your man is going to feel like!

Important: If you do use a dildo in your anal preparation, make sure to wash it thoroughly afterwards before using it in your vagina.

• Make Sure You Talk To Your Man

You can do all this anal sex preparation perfectly, but it will be totally worthless if you don’t actually communicate to your man what you need and what feels best (as well as what feels painful).

So before you start having anal sex, make sure you talk to him and let him know that

•     You need to allow your anus/anal sphincter to loosen up, and this takes time.

•     You need to be in total control at the start because it’s very painful if he penetrates you without your sphincter being relaxed enough.

This is vital if you want anal sex to be pleasurable. Start on your hands and knees, with your man behind you on his knees like in the picture below.

Start Off In This Position, But Make Sure Your Man Knows That You Need To Be In Control

It’s a good idea to have been playing around with your fingers and even a butt plug for a while before your man enters you so that you are already loosened up and reasonably relaxed. Also make sure that you have already applied plenty of lube to yourself as well as to your man’s penis. Then it’s time to put the preparation aside and start actually having anal sex.

To start, your man needs to stay very still, while you back yourself up onto him. This way, you have control over how deep you take him as well as how slow you go.

Something Interesting Our Readers Discovered - Like when using a butt plug, you should try starting in the turtle position (tasteful demonstration here). For some reason this position makes it much, much easier to take your man at the start. I’m not a physiotherapist or scientist, but the turtle position somehow allows your anal sphincter to relax much more easily than most other positions.

For additional information and guidance on having anal sex with your man, you should take a look at these extra anal sex tips that will quickly get you up to speed. Additionally, if you want to see actual demonstrations of the best positions for anal sex, then check out this list here.

• How To Keep It Squeaky Clean

A major issue many have when it comes to having anal sex and preparing for it is…

The fear that it will be dirty.

Let me be honest, it certainly can get a bit dirty

But…
It will only be dirty if you don’t prepare properly. So avoid eating or drinking anything that will loosen up your stool for 2 days before you have anal sex with your man. This means avoiding things like caffeine, beans or any food that has too much fibre. Also make sure to go to the loo about 30 minutes beforehand. This is usually enough to prepare yourself properly for anal sex

But, if you want to go one step further, you might consider giving yourself an enema or even going for a colonic beforehand.

• Help! It Still Hurts!

Often, even after all this preparation, you may still find it a little painful. It’s a pretty common complaint and it totally normal. The important thing is figuring out what’s causing the pain. It could be that you are feeling nervous and as a result are tighter than you want to be. Or maybe you are not using enough lube. Or maybe your man happens to be particularly well hung.

As always, my advice is to talk to your man so that he understands how you’re feeling and so that you are both on the same page and he can help to make it a more comfortable experience.


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How To Find Your G Spot Easily & Quickly

         While this guide is going to teach you how to find your G Spot, men will learn a lot from reading it too. The G Spot is located in the same place for all women, but unfortunately some have trouble finding it.
Don’t worry I’ll explain why in just a little bit…. so if you have trouble finding it right now, please read the entire guide. Now on to the important question…

Where Is The G Spot?

If you check out the diagram above, you can see that it’s clearly located about 2-3 inches (5-7.5cm) inside the vagina on the anterior wall (the side of your vagina closest to your belly).

When you touch your G Spot, it will feel slightly different to the rest of you vagina. It should feel like the top of your palate in your mouth but softer. So it should feel slightly dimpled, but very soft to touch.

To reach your G Spot with your fingers, just slide your palm down your stomach, with your palm touching your stomach, all the way down to your vagina. Then enter you vagina with 1 or 2 fingers and curl those fingers backwards once they are 2-3 inches deep inside you. You should now be able to feel your G Spot on your finger tips. This diagram below should help:

I Still Can’t Seem Find It…. Help Me!
The location of the G Spot is the same for all women…however some women have serious difficultly finding it. They might even feel like they were born without one! Don’t worry, I’ll explain why you can’t find your G Spot and then I’ll cover what you can do to locate it.

Why You Can’t Find Your G Spot. Hint: It’s Not Your Fault

The reason for many women believing that they can’t find their G Spot is simply because you need to be aroused to find it. This isn’t a joke, I’m deadly serious. If you are not thoroughly aroused, then you are going to have difficultly finding your G Spot or getting any pleasure from the area where it’s supposed to be. So if your gynecologist happens to press on or massage your G Spot area during an exam, then you’re not going to feel much because you’re not aroused.

Why You Need To Be Aroused - There is an area just above your G Spot called the urethral sponge. This urethral sponge contains a gland called your Skene’s gland which swells and fills with fluid as you become aroused (Wikipedia has more on the Skene’s gland here). As the Skene’s gland swells and expands more and more, it causes the G Spot to become sensitive and protrude, becoming more prominent in your vagina.

I have indicated the Skene’s gland in light purple below. As you get turned on the Skene’s gland swells with fluid, which causes the G Spot to become more sensitive and makes it more prominent in the vagina.

So if you are not turned on, then your G Spot will not be swollen or sensitive and so it’s not going to be as easy to find. This means that if you are having trouble finding it, make sure to get thoroughly aroused beforehand if you are alone…. and if you are with your man, then make sure to have lots of foreplay first. This way you’ll be thoroughly aroused and easily able to find it.

Why You Still Can’t Find Your G Spot. Hint: It’s Still Not Your Fault
Ok, so maybe you’ve followed my tips so far and even used some of these masturbation techniques to get super-crazy aroused yet still have trouble finding that super sensitive area known as your G Spot. Here’s why:

The size of the Skene’s gland varies quite considerably from woman to woman. If you have a very small Skene’s gland, then your G Spot will never get that sensitive or protrude much, even when you are super aroused, making it next to impossible to have a G Spot orgasm. This is also backed up by science: When experiments were performed, some women were found to have no Skene’s gland at all (Seriously! You can read about it here), which means that their G Spot could never become really sensitive or swollen.

Don’t worry though, plenty of women who don’t have G Spot orgasms still have incredible sex live thanks to the multitude of other ways you can orgasm. These clitoral stimulation techniques, masturbation tips , even more masturbation techniques and these techniques for fingering yourself should be more than enough.

I Found My G Spot, Now What!?
If you have followed all my advice above and discovered how to find your G Spot, then it’s time to start enjoying all the pleasure that it can bring. First, I’m going to briefly cover the best techniques you can use to stimulate it on your own, then I’ll talk about the best sex positions to use for stimulating your G Spot

G Spot Self Pleasure
One of the best techniques to use to stimulate your G Spot is a variation of this diagram at the start of the article. While rubbing and massaging your G Spot with one hand, you can use your other hand to stimulate your clitoris like in the diagram below. Perfect for doubling your pleasure:

There are also 3 very specific G Spot massage techniques that I teach here in the article on making yourself squirt.

Maximizing G Spot Stimulation – Angle & Depth
When having sex with your man (or using a dildo), one thing you will naturally want to do is maximize the level of stimulation your G Spot receives. This all comes down to the angle that your man enters your vagina at and how deep he is inside you. This first diagram will give you an idea of how deep and at what angle you man should penetrate you to ensure he hits your G Spot.

But if you find that this angle doesn’t provide enough pressure, then he should penetrate you at an even more extreme angle like the one below. The same goes when you are using a dildo on yourself.

Sex Positions To Stimulate Your G Spot

Now that you’ve learned how to find your G Spot and how to stimulate it, it’s time to learn some sex positions that you can use to provide maximum stimulation to it during sex. I’ve narrowed it down to the best 4.

A quick reminder: It’s important to remember that as your G Spot is only 2-3 inches deep, most guys will need to be very shallow in your vagina. Some guys might even feel like they are about to ‘pop out’ of your vagina a lot of the time when trying to stimulate your G Spot.

G Spot Sniper

The G Spot sniper gets it’s name from the fact that it’s like your man’s only mission is to hit your G Spot. The most important thing here to focus on is the angle of your body and how deep you take your man. So play around with how far you raise your hips off the ground.






 Bucking Bronco

The Bucking Bronco is wonderful for hitting your G Spot, especially if you enjoy being on top during sex.






Rear Entry

The Rear Entry position is great if you like your man doing most of the work to hit your G Spot. However, to truly hit your G Spot and stimulate it properly, he’s going to need to follow some specific instructions…

Instead of simply thrusting in and out of you, he’s going to need to use more of a grinding motion. When he grinds forward/up on you, his hips will move forward and this will cause the head of his penis to ‘stroke’ your G Spot, provided he’s not too deep. If he grinds too far forward though, his penis will ‘pop out’ of your vagina. As always make sure to talk to your man and let him know exactly what you want.

Teaspooning

Teaspooning is so nice if you like your man being able to wrap his arms around you and hold you close during sex.













Don’t Confuse Your G Spot With Your A Spot
Some women don’t know that they have another super sensitive area deeper in their vagina. It’s your A Spot also known as the anterior fornix erogenous zone. This is located on the anterior wall of you vagina like your G Spot (that’s the side of your vagina closest to your stomach), but it’s much deeper than your G Spot. You can see it’s location in the diagram below.

Stimulating the A Spot also feels incredible, but slightly different than having your G Spot stimulated. Most guys will be able to reach it with their fingers and can use the same techniques as I described above to stimulate it. However, you may find that your fingers aren’t long enough and you have to use a dildo or something similar to reach it.

So if you discover that you don’t enjoy shallow stimulation (2-3 inches deep) where you G Spot is located, but instead prefer it much deeper, then most likely your A Spot is more sensitive than your G Spot. Wikipedia has more great info on the A Spot here.

I Need To Pee Every Time I Stimulate My G Spot….Help!?!?

Feeling like you need to pee when stimulating you G Spot is perfectly normal. Most women get this feeling because your bladder is right beside your G Spot. Take a look at the illustrations above to get an idea of what I’m talking about. So when you are pressing on your G Spot, you are also going to put some pressure on your bladder too. The most helpful thing you can do is pee before sex or masturbation. This will minimize the ‘need to pee’ feeling.

Additionally, as I explain in the guide on making yourself squirt, the fluid that you ejaculate when you squirt travels through the same that tube you pee from. This fluid comes from your Skene’s gland. But because it travels through the same tube as your pee, you may feel like you are peeing if you happen to squirt while rubbing your G Spot.

So now that you know where your G Spot is, you’re probably going to be interested in getting the most pleasure possible from it. This masturbation techniques article will help, as will this one and this one on fingering yourself. The squirting guide will also show you and your man every you need to know about female ejaculation during sex.


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